Working Alongside Child Frustration
Children express themselves in different ways - sometimes this unfolds through frustration and aggression. Negotiating with a child demonstrating aggressive behaviour can sometimes be difficult, exhausting and intimidating - especially for early childhood educators. However, there are some strategies that can be used to help manage the child's behavior and create a more positive environment for learning.
Here are just some strategies that can be used:
Remain calm and in control: When dealing with an aggressive child, it is important for educators and parents to remain calm and in control. If the child senses anger or frustration from the adult, it can escalate the situation.
Identify triggers: Understanding the triggers that cause the child's aggressive behavior can help educators and parents anticipate and prevent these situations. Triggers can include specific activities or interactions with certain people.
Provide clear and consistent boundaries: Children need clear and consistent boundaries in order to feel safe and secure. This can involve setting clear expectations and consequences for behavior.
Use positive reinforcement: Positive reinforcement can be a powerful tool to encourage positive behavior. Praising the child for good behavior or progress can help to build their confidence and encourage them to continue.
Develop a behavior plan: Developing a behavior plan that includes specific strategies and interventions can help to manage the child's behavior. This plan should be developed in collaboration with parents and other professionals.
Model positive behavior: Children learn by watching the behavior of adults around them. Educators and parents should model positive behavior, such as using calming techniques when feeling frustrated, to show the child how to manage their emotions.
Seek outside support: If the child's behavior is severe or persistent, it may be necessary to seek outside support from a mental health professional or behavior specialist. They can provide additional strategies and support to help manage the child's behavior.
Working with a child demonstrating aggressive behaviour requires patience, consistency, and a multifaceted approach that includes identifying triggers, providing clear boundaries, using positive reinforcement, developing a behavior plan, modeling positive behavior, and seeking outside support if necessary. By using these strategies, early childhood educators and parents can help manage the child's behavior and create a more positive learning environment.